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5 Things You Should Immediately Stop Asking to Your Crystals

Posted on March 31 2018

5 Things You Should Immediately Stop Asking to Your Crystals

Imagine reaching one of the main goals of your life. Your dream is real, at this moment.
All of the steps that you took to get to the now appear one by one in your mind.
It was a long walk made of time, patience, struggles and many little steps.
Your action map created this moment of joy and fulfilling.

Imagining this moment is a great lesson, even if you have not reached your dream yet.


First, because we just realized that every goal is the result of a series of relevant actions.
What do I mean by that? Relevant actions are all the small and the big steps that contribute to your transformation.

Yes, because you can't reach something higher than you unless you grow.

Every journey towards your purposes and intentions is an evolutionary process first.

Then, when you've got the right skills, your mindset is ready, and joined with your purposes, manifestation occurs.

No matter how sincere your desire is, to realize your dreams you need to change from the inside.

Crystals Energy is perfectly aligned with this Universal law because it works in the same way.

Crystals supports you to manifest what you desire and need by encouraging and sustaining your inner transformation and energy raising.

Someone out there tells you that Crystals attract what you want in itself, they don't mention any transformation process.
"Keep a Citrine in your pocket, you'll get money fast!"
They're all fluff, I know I'm quite rude, but I want to clarify that this is not my perspective about Crystal Energy.

Crystals don't work for strange witcheries or overnight manifestations.


They support and help everyone is ready to work to go deeper and get involved in personal growth because this is the healthy way to transform your world.


Choosing to work with Crystals is a journey of soul and spirit transformation.

This process is necessarily to change the way we live and get where we wanna get.

In fact, the first law we should keep in mind when we choose to work with Crystals is this:

Your External World is the Reflection of Your Inner World.

This is the foundation of the law of attraction philosophy and also of one of the main principles in meditation, in fact, working with Crystals is an excellent compendium of them.

In another world, we change the external by working on the root of it, which is the inside world.

Many people ask me suggestions about the best Crystals to wear to "have their boyfriend back", "find their dream job" or "gain money fast" for example.

Most of us are 100%focused on the result, instead of the necessary journey to get there.

Think about it: how you can achieve a goal when you don't mind how to get there?

So, which is the right approach to achieve anything in life, even working with Crystals?

• First you have to find out why you can't reach that goal yet.
Ask yourself "What is missing?",  and "What is the kind of energy I need to manifest that?"


• Then, take actions to gain what you need to learn, improve or develop.

This is the healthy, real and tangible approach to get anything in life and here's where Crystals give us their high and precious support.

Praying for "external changes" and taking off yourself from any transformative process generate two types of events:

• You can not mantein your position: if for some reason you reach your goals without involve in any learning process you can not maintain your position for long time. That's because you're not ready to face this momentum and everything will may burst quickly like a soap bubble soap.

It just doesn't work! When you ask external things to Crystals they simply don't understand your language, then they can't do anything for you. Crystal Energy resonates on reasons, not on results.

Here are the 5 Things you Should Never Ask to your Crystals:

• Change other people thoughts or radically influence their opinion:

the only thing we can do to control people's thoughts/feelings is explaining our reasons and perspective as clear as possible.


We have to gain the right skills and energy to align our vibe with other people's ones.

You can't get into the head of people changing their intentions and actions unless you use unhealthy methods!

Example: if you really want to find a new job, instead of falling into victimization and tells you stories, ask yourself: why every interview fires me? Maybe I need to gain confidence, learn to express me properly or develop new skills.

When you feel you have the answers to your frustrations you're ready to take actions and open your communication channel gaining more confidence, accepting imperfections as a gift and freeing your self from fear and judging. Aquamarine, for example, is a real boost in this case.

On the opposite, if you choose to not engage yourself in this process of changing, Aquamarine is just a stone because you don't activate its energy with your intentions, actions, and commitment.

• Change other people actions:

in the same way, if we can't influence people thoughts by working with Crystals, we can not control their actions neither.

Example: if you want to get back your boyfriends, try to deepest understand the reasons for separation.
Closing other people in our box forcing their actions is never a good idea.

You can't control anything excepts your thoughts, actions, and energies.

• Overcome your intentions:

Crystals are healthy and wise creatures, they can help just if you really want to change.

They're not medicine, instead, they really boost your vitality and light when you declare your intention and show your commitment to the Universe.

Example: if you wanna lose weight, you can keep an Eye Tiger Crystal on your pocket, but it will be activated just when you declare your goal to the Universe by eating clearer and choose stairs instead of the elevator.


Here is where Crystals can really help you to amplify your intentions and stay focused on your visions. 
If not we just have a sexy story, not results! 

• Overnight success:

Crystals are not the way for overnight success, at the opposite they're the key to amplify your transformation making it faster and intense.

According to the National Endowment for Financial Education, 70 percent of lottery winners end up bankrupt because they're not ready to face that change.
In a healthy-transformation process abundance is a result, not a single fact.

Example: If you keep a Citrine in your wallet and within two days you win a million dollar bucks, it's due to the fate. These external results have nothing to do with Crystal Healing Energy.

• Heal mental or physical pathologies:

Crystals should not be used as a replacement for medical care.

Rather used as a complementary therapy along with the treatment prescribed by your doctor.
I know that many people tell you the opposite and I want to make clear that I'm not in the same position.

Example: if you suffer from conic back pain due to scoliosis or slipped disc, meditating with Ematite or Selenite it's a great complementary therapy to your exercises and it cannot substitute it.

Pup culture use to turn everything into something easy to digest, that get fast results with a very limited commitment, and so what is happening with Crystals.
I know that many people have a different perspective on Crystal Healing and that's why my mission is bringing giving my best to remove the "fast food approach" to Crystals.

The reality is that commitments, time and doubts are necessary to get what we want in life and become who you are <3 We have to honor all our struggles, doubts and difficulties instead avoiding them.

Thank you for reading this article, I appreciate it because this is a crucial point to me in Crystal Healing.
As always this is my perspective :) so don't hesitate to share your vision on how Crystal Healing Energy can change the way to live your life in the comment below ;)

All Love,

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  • Francesca Mancini: April 12, 2018

    Hi Tanya, I’m glad my perspective resonates with yours pretty well :) thank you so much for sharing your love <3

  • Tanya: April 10, 2018

    As a fellow Crystal Caretaker and energy worker, I wanted to congratulate you on a well-written and thoughtful article. We have a very similar perspective on crystal healing and working with our crystal friends and this is really great advice for people who are new to crystals or don’t yet understand their own energy connections.

  • Francesca: April 04, 2018

    Hi Edwige^^ thanks for sharing your love sweetheart ^^
    Oh yes absolutely, Crystal Jewels are much more than look or style! They can be one of the guides of your spiritual journey towards healing and growth. Hope to keep to inspire you with Crystals and wise creatures in future :)

  • Edwidge: April 03, 2018

    Love it !!! Thank you for your authenticity, to speak with heart ! Long life to your business. Thanks you to take time to share with us more than your beautiful jewels. Your generosity make them a deeper gift !

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